Why Mature Sex Is The Best

It is pretty much undisputed that mature people have the best sex. Yes, we young and na├»ve people think that we pretty much invented sex, but we don’t even know half of the awesome sex tips and tricks that mature people have perfected over the years.

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So mature sex is clearly the best, but what is it that makes it so good? What can we young and relatively innocent adults learn from the hot and steamy things that mature people get up to in the bedroom?

Better and more satisfying sex

Unsurprisingly, there have been plenty of studies that have confirmed the fact that mature people are having better and more satisfying sex than we are. Hey, at least it is something to look forward to as we get older, right?

The National Council on Ageing conducted a study that found 74% of men and 70% of women over the age of 60 found that their sex lives were “more satisfying” than they were when they were younger. Result!

Not only that, but women as they get older have even better orgasms from this amazing sex that they are getting. Plenty of women actually report that they have “increased sexual pleasure after menopause”, which it turn leads to “more frequent or intense orgasms”.

So, remind me again why we are all so worried and panicky against about getting older when these are the epic things that we can look forward to?

They know exactly what they want…

Those in your youth are still learning about your body. You are experimenting in the bedroom, trying to figure out exactly what it is that turns you on the most and what makes you come harder than you have ever come before. It is all fun but can leave you disappointed when you try something out and it doesn’t work the way you were hoping it would.

Years of experimenting and testing things out in bed means that mature people have a better understanding of exactly what it is that they want in bed and what they enjoy.

They have also had plenty of time to figure out what their body enjoys the most through masturbation, and that, combined with the experiments they like to conduct in the bedroom, mean that they have a pretty clear idea of what works for them in bed. They can step away from the things that don’t get them in the mood and instead do the things that do.

…and aren’t afraid to ask for it!

This understanding of their own bodies, combined with the confidence from their years of intense, passionate, and amazing sex means that not only do they know exactly what they want in bed, but they also aren’t afraid to ask for it.

They might have spent years having boring sex simply because they didn’t know how to speak up. They, like many young people, will have had ideas about what they wanted to do and yet not been able to say it. Those days, it is safe to say, are over.

Instead of worrying about the pleasure of others, they have started to place their own pleasure as a priority. That means that they will say to their partner exactly what they want to do and how to do it, and they also aren’t afraid to point out when the things their partner is doing just aren’t working for them.

We can definitely take something from this. Instead of being quiet when we are having sex that just doesn’t work for us, we could speak up and finally get the amazing sex that we want and deserve. We could be having better sex and better orgasms if we just learn to speak up about what we want in bed, and I am all for that!

Do you have difficulty speaking up in bed, or are you a mature and sexy person who has found that all of the above is absolutely true when it comes to your sex life? You can let us know on the Escort Wales forum or by leaving a comment in the box below.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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