Top Oral Sex Tips From Women

Sorry fellas, but when it comes to oral sex you’re a bit clueless. Numerous times I’ve had a man move his head down my body with a grin on his face as though he is the king of the world, only for it to last no more than a minute and then I have his face frowning at me as though I have done something wrong for not coming.
Sexy woman in red lingerie having an orgasm

Sure, there are some guys out there who are great at it. When women like me are lucky enough to find them, it is all we want to do. We are more than happy to lie there and let them lick away at us until we scream in orgasm.

Hoping to be that guy? Read the following oral sex tips which have come from the women you want to leave wanting more, and more, and more.

Relaxation is key

You might have been thinking about it all day… hoping to bury your head in the delicious folds and make her moan your name over and over again. However, she might not have been. Instead, she might have been taking shit from her boss and feeling in a lousy mood.

In other words, she might not be in the best place to enjoy oral sex. You might need to help her get to a more relaxed place, and there are so many ways you can do that.

Something as simple as running her a bath can make a huge difference. Make her a hot bath and give her a glass of wine to enjoy while she is in there. Play some relaxing music and let her take her time enjoying the bubbles and hot water. Check regularly to see if she needs another drink, and make sure her every need is attended to.

When she is done, offer to give her a nice relaxing all over sensual massage. Let her choose her favourite oil or body lotions for you to use on her, and take your time with the massage. It will not only help to relax her, but she will also get really turned on by the slow and erotic massage.

Find the perfect position

If you have chosen to give your partner a massage beforehand, you can simply get her to roll onto her back and massage her front before working your way down to her sweet pussy.

However, if you have found that your partner is in a good mood and more than happy for you to give her a little oral sex, you also want to make sure she gets into a comfortable position. Have you ever received a blowjob and found yourself wanting to move a little to get comfy so you can truly enjoy the sensations properly? It is the same for women.

The traditional idea is to have her lying on her back on a bed, so that she is comfortable and at ease. It works because she can easily reach down and stroke your hair as you lick, and you can get to where you need to be without struggle.

Sensual girl in bedYou might have some other ideas in mind. Doggy style is becoming more and more popular as an oral sex position, as she can push against your face a little while you lick away, and if you combine the position with your fingers thrusting at the right moment it can lead to an intense orgasm.

Be patient

There is one huge problem that most men face when it comes to oral sex. They want to get straight to the finish line and have her screaming their name out loud. Yet for women it takes them a little longer to get there.

Don’t go straight for the finish line. Instead, learn to tease her and drive her wild. Lick gently and slowly, taking your time to enjoy every inch of her, before you move on. It will drive her wild and make her beg you to go faster.

When you think she is getting close, the worst thing you can do is change what you are doing. Changing things can take her out of the moment, especially if what you are doing is working for her. What you want to do is keep doing exactly what you are doing and listen to what she says. If she is moaning and saying “yes” then you know you are on to a winner.

What are your favourite oral sex tips? Do you considering yourself a cunnilingus connoisseur, or are you ready and willing to learn all you can about licking pussy? Share with us by going to the Escort Wales forum, or by leaving your thoughts in the comment box below.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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