Threesomes: Great Fun Or Just Embarrassing?

Everyone talks about threesomes, and when they do it is in one of three ways. One, they are interested in having one. Two, they have had one and loved it. Three, they have had one and hated it.
Man and two women

If you have found yourself toying with the idea of a threesome, but still unsure if it is what you want, we here at Escort Wales have created a list of the potential pros and cons of enjoying a threesome.

Pros to a threesome

Confidence

If you are the odd-one-out in the ménage à trois, having a threesome can bring you a huge amount of sexual confidence. You are the centre of attention, the one who gets the most kisses, touches, and love during the act. The men will want to keep their hands on you at all times, while the women will want to bring up as much pleasure as possible.

Even if you are not the centre of attention, having another person there can allow you to concentrate on what you are doing. You can give a slow, deep blowjob or join your friend in kissing your way down your partner’s naked body. Seeing their reaction will prove just how good your skills are.

Fun

Threesomes can be a lot of fun. They give you the chance to let loose and just enjoy the moment, and there is less pressure on you since there are two other people involved in this hot and sexy act.

Relaxing can go a long way to helping your enjoyment, so try not to worry about the little things. Instead, focus all of your attention on the two people with you and your problems will vanish as you get to know each other a little more intimately.

Understanding

With the way people rant and rave about threesomes, you’d think there was nothing like it in the world. If you do take part in one, you may find that you haven’t enjoyed it… but at least you can say you’ve done it.

Being able to tick this off your bucket list will not only help you to understand what people mean when they talk about threesomes, but you will also find yourself being more open to new sexual experiences. You will be willing to try new things without the fear of getting it wrong.
Unhappy couple

Cons

Fantasy

One of the biggest worries with a threesome is the way they are shown in porn films. In the videos, everyone automatically knows exactly where to go and what to do at the right time, and everyone magically achieves orgasm at the same time.

Unless you rehearse it beforehand, which can take away all of the fun, it isn’t going to work like that. You may find yourself unsure of what to do next, and the best way to combat this is to ask the others what they want. Together, you can then team up to bring your partners to orgasm before letting yourself get off.

Drink

Sometimes you want a little bit of courage in the form of an alcoholic drink before you try something new, but you should avoid it if you plan to have a threesome.

Drinking before sex can affect your body in different ways, and what you think may look sexy when drunk might actually just look like stumbling around. Instead, the best way to relieve your worries is to talk to those who will be involved about them. They can reassure you as to just what will happen and put your mind at ease.

Verdict on threesomes

My current partner has had a threesome before and isn’t interested in having another in the future. That said, my previous partner had enjoyed man threesomes before we got together and is probably still having them now, such was his love for them. As for me, I’m still toying with the idea of them.

Have you had a threesome? Was your experience a positive one, or will you never invite a third person into your bedroom again? Share your experience either by heading over to the Escort Wales forum, or you can leave a comment below and telling us how you feel about threesomes. Are threesomes really all they are cracked up to be, or is it an exaggeration?

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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