The Downsides To Sex In The Shower

Sex in the shower can be great, especially if you are looking to try something different without going too far out of your comfortable. However, like many other kinky things that we like to do, it can sometimes go wrong.

Young couple washing their heads in the shower

Sex in the shower has a huge amount of things that can go wrong, and when they do embarrassment will be the least of your worries. Want to know about the things you really need to be careful of in the shower? Keep reading.

Caution: Slippery when wet

One of the biggest dangers of having sex in the shower is that it is going to get slippery, and that can make keeping your balance and grip hard. The last thing that you want to happen is to be getting close to coming all over the ass of your sexy woman only for you both to slip and do yourselves some serious damage… ouch!

There are some things you can do to minimise the risk of falling, but this is the internet and the internet is indeed a scary place sometimes. There are some companies who actually sell special suctions cup foot rests for you to put in the shower. If that wasn’t weird enough, you can also get “dual locking suction handles” to attach to the shower and give you something to hold onto.

If you’d rather not waste money on questionable things like that, a good way to get rid of the risk of falling on your ass (or hers) is to avoid getting too wet and slippery, and use things like dry wash clothes. Putting them down will give you something steady to rest again and will absorb a lot of the water, meaning you can happily fuck away for hours!

Be patient with oral

Oral sex can be a lot of fun, and in the shower it feels even better. The fact that this isn’t the place you usually have sex makes it a huge turn on, but far too many forget the effort it takes to perform oral sex in the shower.

If you are the one receiving, you might forget what is going on down there. Not only will your partner have a mouthful of your cock, but they’ll also be trying to breathe while they are effectively being water boarded by the shower throwing water at them. You might not be getting the greatest blow job in the world, but it is hard to suck dick while trying not to inhale water.

Those looking for an alternative to this should simply switch their positions a bit. Instead of having you facing the shower, turn away from it so that the water hits your back. Sure, your partner might still have to deal with a little bit of water, but it will be a lot less than before and that means you can enjoy what she’s doing without worrying about her breathing.

Soap and water don’t replace lube!

Shower sex means that it gets even wetter, but a lot of people make the mistake of thinking this means they can dive in earlier. For some reason, far too many think that water and soap are a good alternative to lubricant, and so they can do some real damage by trying to force it. Yes, water lubricants are thought to be the best, but water on its own should never replace lube. If you find that your partner isn’t quite ready yet, why not go down on her? Let her unwind a little as you lick out her sweet pussy and she will be ready for your cock in no time at all!

Another problem comes when you start washing your partner and then slide your soapy fingers into her cunt. Wrong! Do not do this! Soap does not belong in her pussy, and if you put it in there it can cause some real problems. For a start, if she is allergic to any of the ingredients in the soap, she might get contact dermatitis. This leads to itching, burning, and in severe cases must be treated with a steroid ointment. Definitely not the memorable moment you were hoping to have!

Instead of trying to use water and soap as a lubricant, you should instead be getting her ready for it. Take the time to pleasure her and, if she still isn’t there yet, go and get some lube and try to keep out of the direct stream of the shower. Just don’t use soap and water because you want a quick and wet fuck!

Keeping it quick

Shower sex is supposed to be quick, which is a part of the problem. When you get into the shower you might want to take your time exploring your partner’s body and teasing them until they squeal in orgasm and shudder against you… but often shower sex tends to happen when you only have a brief amount of time before you have to leave.

The quickness of sex in the shower can make it hard to orgasm, especially if you are worrying about slipping in the shower as well as rushing through it. You might even find yourselves both sulking your way out of the shower orgasmless, and that can be very disappointing for you both!

If you are really eager to orgasm in the shower, but don’t have much time to do it, make sure you touch your partner’s sweet spots. While you fuck her as she bends over in front of you, reach around and squeeze her nipples hard while one hand rubs against her clit. By plunging your cock in and out of her pussy while you rub her clit and squeeze her nipples, you are hitting three of the spots that make her feel good, and hopefully with her orgasm you’ll also find yours!

Have you ever fallen in the shower, or are there some big mistakes that we’ve missed? Let us know by leaving a comment in the box below or visit the Escort Wales forum and share your thoughts there.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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