Sex Advice – How To use a Dildo

Dildos may be referred to as the most self indulgent item a woman can have in her goodie drawer, they are so special because no matter how much a man can please a woman, sometimes nothing can quite get us off than a vibrator. Here is a guide to help you choose the right vibrator and how to use it.

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The Egg

Dildos can be used as part of healthy masturbation and there are so many different types of dildos to use. When selecting a dildo, choose one that reflects your desires correctly. The egg is a vibrator in the shape of an egg with a remote control attached. It makes a perfect vibrator as you push it inside and then let it buzz you into ecstasy.The great thing about it is you can wear it anywhere, in secret! The naughtiness of that can make it even more stimulating.

Use as a couple, give him the remote and let him choose how to pleasure you too.

The OhMiBod

The revolutionary piece of equipment combines pleasure with music. You plug your ipod into the vibrating dildo and it buzzes to the beat of the music. This item is perfect for solo use on a chilled day with nothing to do but stimulate yourself.

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The Jack Rabbit

Sex and the City bought this little baby into the spotlight, when Charlotte got addicted to the vibrator and refused to face the real dating world, preferring to stay at home with the vibrator. It is still as popular now. The Jack Rabbit has a rotating penis, a buzzing set of bunny ears for the clit and beads whch turn and stimulate the Gspot. A real find and a classic vibrator. You can use as a couple, ask him to use the vibrator on you as foreplay, you can even ask him to make you climax if you find it more exciting than doing it yourself.

Anal Dildos

These vibrators are smaller, for good reason! You can buy vibrators such as ´the bullet´ which train you before trying anal sex. These are usually much smoother as well and shaped differently with the end growing smaller for more comfortable use. You can use the vibrator together during sex by pushing it in for double the stimuation or you can use it solo and build up your confidence before you jump into anal sex.

Dildo Accessories

Lubricants are a good idea, as is condoms if you are sharing dildos with another woman and in a threesome type situation this is the safest and best option. Lubricants come in many different styles, Ann Summers do an amazing range. Because dildos are normally much larger than your average man, lubricant is suggested to prevent soreness. The handbag dildo is a bit of a godsend, you can carry this puppy around and use whenever you have a secret few minutes.

It´s healthy to have fun with your sexuality and know how to please and touch yourself. That’s why we are always here to give you fantastic advice.

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Martin Ward

Martin Ward is a well respected editor and writer with over five years experience in the adult industry. After stints in the Escort Advertising call centre and on the escort forum, he moved into the site editor position around three years ago.

Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.

When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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