What To Remember About Sex Over 60

Many people seem to believe that once you start to go grey, you stop having sex. Bill Cosby has recently told us that it isn’t true, as he celebrated his 77th birthday with a romp under the sheets. The American comedian was proud of this, showing the world that older people can still have very happy and healthy sex lives.

People over sixty still have sex

As a nearly sixty year old man, I know what assumptions people make. They think that because my wife has been through the menopause, she has no sex drive. They think that my bad knee means I can barely get myself a glass of water, never mind take a roll in the sheets. Anyone even mentioning to my kids that their parents still have sex has them plugging their ears.
An older woman looks at the cameraThe very idea of older people having sex seems to repulse people – but why? I love my wife and the sex life we have, so here are the key things to remember about sex as you get older.

Understand how your body works

Your body changes as you get older. It’s one of the parts of aging. However, you can still maintain a healthy and active sex life if you take the time to understand your body.

Aging can affect everyone differently, but talking about it with your partner can be an important part of understanding it. By sitting down with your partner, you can discuss what has changed and what you might need to do differently to ensure it is enjoyable for both of you.

Connecting with your partner

Older couple with a giftHaving a strong connection with your partner is also important, whether you have been married for forty years or you are starting a new relationship. Talking, kissing, and laughing can help you feel closer, which in turn makes sex better.

Don’t be afraid to try new things

As I’ve gotten older I’ve found that I care less what judgements people make about me. It allows me to try whatever I want to, and to experiment with new things. I have more confidence, and trying something new is exciting.

If you aren’t sure where to start, why not talk to one of the Anglesey escorts? Whenever I talk to them, I hear about the different things they have done in their lives. They are bound to have some tips for helping your relationship.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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