Oral Sex – Better To Give Than Receive?

I don’t think there is anyone out there who would turn down a blowjob. After all, seeing your partner smiling as they slide their lips around you is a huge turn on, and it feels fantastic when done right.
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However, I have a friend who insists that he prefers giving instead of receiving. He believes that it makes his sex life better and that he has a better understanding of his partner because of it. Is it better to give than receive?

Giving oral

Giving oral, he says, makes your partner appreciate you more. They want to please you more in bed because you are able to please them, and they will take their time about it because you haven’t rushed to get your leg over.

Oral sex is a great way to warm your partner up for the main event. Licking at their clitoris and stroking their lips with your tongue can be better than using lube, and if you manage to get your partner to orgasm it is even better.

Receiving oral

Personally I can’t think of anything better than receiving oral. Seeing your partner slide down onto their knees before taking your cock into their mouths is fantastic, and the way it feels when their lips move slowly up and down as they tease you is great.

The only problem I can see with receiving oral is if your partner brings you to your climax too quickly. If you find this is often the case, ask them to slow down and maybe even take a break from it. That way you can ensure the fun doesn’t end too early.

Why not both?

I see a very simple solution to this discussion – why not have both? Why not get into the 69 position and enjoy both giving oral and receiving oral from your partner? They get to enjoy an orgasm before you get down to actually having sex and you get to enjoy the feel of their lips and tongue on your penis.

I think I will always prefer receiving oral over giving it, but you might be different. What makes one better than the other? Leave your thoughts down in the comments section below or go over to the Escort Wales forum and tell us what you think there.

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Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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