How To Give A Woman Mindblowing Oral Sex

The much neglected bedroom trick is very misunderstood, women often complain that they don’t get enough oral sex action or that their man doesn’t quite know how to bring her to orgasm with oral sex.

But males should not underestimate the power of amazing, toe curling oral sex, what it adds to sex when the deed is done and how she will never forget that time you gave her the best orgasm of her life.

Here are some tips to get her heart beating, breath quickening and mouth groaning. And for what you get in return…well, you’re welcome.

 

Create the scene

Give her a glass of wine, let her relax, run her a bath or run massage oils all over her body. Create a scene where she can relax and feel pampered. Unlike men, women tend to need to relax to be able to climax more efficiently, being relaxed will mean she is much more responsive to every touch. Peel her clothes off and stroke her body, making her feel sexy and delicious as you make your way down to between her thighs.

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Get her comfortable

Positions for oral sex need to be in places where she feels relaxed and comfortable, maybe a pillow under her buttocks, or with her head resting on her pillow, thighs separated. For you, slide down, with your body lying facing her, so all your attention is on her. Sexiness for a woman is about feeling pampered, teased and desired.

 

Start slow

A woman’s clitoris is very sensitive, it is always best to head for this sweet spot and begin slow, building her slowly bit by bit to climax. Start at this spot, but start around it not directly at it, massaging your tongue slowly and gently, then come towards it. When being gentle, you can lick from the entrance of her vagina to the clitoris. Use your saliva as lubricant and of course the more turned on she is the more lubricant she will also produce, turning you both on more.

 

Circular stimulation

In the film American Pie, we saw one of the high school students practice oral sex from a mysterious book which made his girlfriend scream the house down, well, actually it’s not all that complicated or mysterious, here we unearth the tricks for any amateur. Circular massaging with the tongue is what the mysterious clitoris adores, start with circular gentle strokes around the clitoris, pressing deeper but keeping the tongue soft, then take it harder for more stronger and precise stimulation.

 

Sucking

Sucking a woman’s clitoris will drive her crazy, take it in your mouth and suck, using your tongue to flick it gently while you do so. This will send little shivers all over her body, making her ready to explode. You can also suck her lips and delve your tongue into the vagina, as an added bonus, you are ready to be devoured by a lioness!

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Rapid but gentle

Rapid sucks and rapid tongue movement on the clitoris can be naughty and incredibly arousing, you can mix with gentle strokes along the thighs and along the breasts, reminding her that her body is also turning you on, is also a welcome addition while she is enjoying being spoilt with pleasure.

 

Use your fingers

It can’t be stressed enough how much the fingers matter when it comes to oral sex, don’t start off with fingers, allow her to be hypnotised with your tongue, but adding a finger or two into the mix will encourage her to orgasm quicker and respond more to every lick and Kiss.

Multi-tasking is key

Ok, so I know this isn’t exactly a man’s strong point, but once you have this act perfected, it will be like second nature. The way to bring a woman to orgasm is to repeatedly stimulate her clitoris with your tongue and thrust her in the right spot with your fingers, find her Gspot, which will feel rough and is on the anterior wall of the vagina. Fingers can also be used to caress, stroke and swap clitoral stimulation from tongue to fingers, you don’t need to be too heavy handed, and gentle will do. Judge her by her moans at which spot is best, get comfortable and most importantly don’t be tense, enjoy, experiment and explore.

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Props

If she is feeling especially naughty, add in a vibrator instead of your . You could also use whipped cream spreading it over her body and Licking it off, some women adore these little additions in the bedroom, others enjoy being tied up or blindfolded, so they can really feel every sensation. Check with her what she would most like and have it handy, or – surprise her.

 

The Aftermath

Once you have claimed your throne at the oral sex king, you can slide into her yourself and join in the stimulation, a woman is very sensitive inside after an orgasm, the lubricant will also elevate the sexiness of the act and it will help encourage her to another orgasm.

This list of tips will turn you into a real Adonis in the bedroom, besides – what guy wants to be remembered as good when he could be remembered as mind-blowing!
This is something you could practise with a Cardiff escort, to perfect your skills and make for an amazing and fun evening.

Again, you’re welcome.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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