Erotic Massage Myths Busted!

Mention to someone that you want an erotic massage and they’ll raise an eyebrow while nudging you in the side going “so… a ‘massage’ huh?” before laughing their heads off. There are so many myths surrounding massages and particularly erotic massages that people are put off going to get one.
Man receiving massage

So here on the Escort Wales blog we take a look at some of the biggest myths surrounding erotic massage and bust them.

You have to get naked

While the name erotic massage suggests that you will have to get naked before you enjoy your massage, you actually don’t have to. Your masseuse might find it easier if you are naked, but if you don’t feel comfortable with it you can tell them beforehand and they will respect your choice.

However, it is difficult to enjoy an erotic massage if you remain fully clothed. You can remain in your underwear while still enjoying a really thorough massage and erotic experience. If there are certain parts of your body that you feel uncomfortable with, tell them and they will avoid it, or touch those areas gently to make you feel more comfortable.

Remember, the whole point of an erotic massage is to turn you on and make your horny. Try to relax and enjoy the experience, instead of focuses on your worries, and you will enjoy it a whole lot more.

A rub, a tug, and you’re done!

Some people think that an erotic massage is where your partner gives your body a bit of a rub, tugs you off, and then cleans up. They believe it is a quick “wham, bam, thank you ma’am” five minute job.

In reality, it is more than that. The massage starts slowly, working from the very tips of your fingers to the centre of your body, and back out again to drive you wild with desire.

If you are lucky enough to enjoy an erotic massage with happy ending, your masseuse will take their time with this too. It is a huge turn off for you if they rush through it, and many know this. They want you to enjoy yourself. However, usually with an erotic massage and happy ending your find yourself so relaxed and turned on you cum sooner than you thought you would.

Erotic massages are just massages with a wank

Many people have not enjoyed a real erotic massage, and so they think that the only difference between a massage and an erotic massage is the happy ending. However, there is a big difference between a normal massage and an erotic massage.

Normal massages are usually done to help you relax and feel at ease. If you have had a stressful week at work, you might enjoy one to help you unwind before a fun weekend.

Man receiving erotic massageErotic massages can do the same, but they are also meant to turn you on and get you excited. The touches may be lighter, and your masseuse may linger around key areas of the body to make you anticipate what may come next.

There’s always a happy ending

This ties in to the last point, and is a consistent belief of those who have never experienced an erotic massage.

They think that an erotic massage always leads to a happy ending, and they would be wrong.

Whether you receive a happy ending or not is usually agreed beforehand with the masseuse. You will talk to them about it and they will then deliver, if you want one. It usually flows very naturally, as you are so relaxed and turn on from the massage that the transition is seamless.

Happy endings can be anything, and it all depends on your masseuse. However, a lot of masseuses enjoy giving you a hand job, as their hands have been working your body to its limit. It can feel great to receive one, and it can really make an erotic massage great.

Do you enjoy erotic massages, or do you go just for a happy ending? Let us know by leaving a comment in the box below, or visit the Escort Wales forum and share your thoughts there.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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