DISCUSSION

If you haven’t noticed, there is a general election happening next week. I for one will be happy when it is over, even if I am a bit of a politics buff (nerd). Now there are many factors which will be considered when it comes where the votes will be cast; Brexit, the NHS, security. But where do the parties lie on sex work? Which parties have the interests of sex workers at heart?

Squirting is something of a fantasy for many people. It is extremely popular in porn, with so many videos showing women squirting all over the place. There are even squirt compilations for those who love watching it. However, these squirts are often faked.

A sex bucket list isn’t an unusual thing to have. Plenty of people have kinky fantasies that they want to fulfil, or new things they’d like to try in bed. Things like threesomes and joining the Mile High Club are regulars on this list, but it seems that there might be a new sex trend people want to add… and that is airport sex.

Plenty of people have started to use subscription boxes as a way to try new things. Most of the time, people opt for food boxes to try new products or beauty boxes to get samples of the latest make-up items on the market. If you can think of it, there is a subscription box for it… and this means you can actually sign up to sex toy subscription boxes too!

There are some moments when we are happy to spend a lot of money on things in the bedroom. We might fork out on sexy lingerie because we love the way that it looks, or perhaps we’ll treat ourselves to a kinky weekend away so that we can relax and have lots of hot sex. When it comes to sex toys though we tend to draw a line.

Thanks to the popularity of the Fifty Shades series, more and more people are opening up their minds to the idea of domination. The idea of having another person take control of them, of punishing them for things they have done, is a turn on to some. Others aren’t so sure, as they don’t want to have pain inflicted upon them.

“Let’s talk about sex, baby” might be a line in a catchy song, but we find it so hard to open up on the subject of sex. We’d rather stumble through sex with a partner instead of simply asking them what they like. We feel awkward and uncomfortable saying “tell me what you want” when it is the quickest way to please our partners. So why can’t we talk sex?

When it comes to the subject of sex toys, people tend to be pretty divided on them. Some people don’t see the point in them, believing that those who use toys do so not because they want to spice things up but because they cannot get their partner to orgasm with just their skills. Then there are those of us who love using them because it adds something exciting to sex.

We refer to “that time of the month” by a number of different names. Surfing the crimson wave. A visit from Aunt Flow. Even shark week. It happens. Women get their periods. And yet some people really freak out and are disgusted by the mention of period sex.

If you want to spice things up in the bedroom, a lot of people suggest that the best thing for you to do is to sit down with your partner and watch some porn. It is a fun thing to do with your partner, especially if you want to show them your kinky interests in them and don’t know how to start the conversation.