Casual Sex: The Do’s and Don’ts

Casual sex can be some of the best sex you will ever have. You get to know one another’s bodies for one purpose only, and the focus is entirely on the pleasure passing between you both. However, sometimes it can go wrong if you misunderstand the signs. Here on the Escort Wales blog, we’ve written down some of the dos and don’ts of casual sex.

DO: Experiment

One of the greatest benefits of casual sex is that you can try out new techniques and positions to see what works best for you. Not only that, but you can openly talk about the things that do and don’t work to help improve your skills set for the future.
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DON’T: Go overboard

Being too forward with your casual sex partner can backfire, so don’t try anything too extreme unless you have discussed it with them first. The casual nature of your hook-up will make it easier for you both to discuss your fantasies and desires, so talk about it. You might just find yourself a willing partner.

DO: Keep things light

Sometimes it is easier to be honest with people who don’t know you as well as your friends, which can be a huge advantage when it comes to casual sex. That means that, if things go wrong for you in the bedroom, you can talk about it and move on. Even better, you can both laugh about it later, so keep smiling and live in the moment.

DON’T: Get too attached

You may think that you are both perfect for each other by the chemistry in the bedroom, but once the bed is no longer underneath you, it could all change. Stay focused on the pleasure and try to avoid doing anything that could complicate matters, like cuddling or buying presents.

DO: Show respect

Your partner will be much more likely to want to see you again if you show respect for them. Treat casual sex as a team event and not a quick sprint to get the most out of it. Remember to use protection, especially if you have multiple casual sex partners. Showing that you care about both your safety and their safety is a huge deal.

Do you have any tips you’d like to add to the mix? What is your number one rule for casual sex encounters?

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Martin Ward

Martin Ward is a well respected editor and writer with over five years experience in the adult industry. After stints in the Escort Advertising call centre and on the escort forum, he moved into the site editor position around three years ago.

Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.

When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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