BJs, Sex, Or Anal?

If you look at the Escort Wales forum, you will see the big question being asked: which is better, blowjobs, sex, or anal sex?

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Everyone has a different opinion about it. Some prefer finishing things off with a wet and sloppy bit of deep throat followed by a facial, while others love nothing better than bending their girl over and fucking her from behind. So, which is better? BJs, Sex, or Anal?

Blowjobs

People enjoy blowjobs for one big reason – the attention is completely on them. Instead of worrying how to move their leg to avoid getting cramp while in missionary or what position they can move to next to let them relax a little more, getting a blowjob lets them simply sit back, relaxing, and enjoy what is happening.

What makes blowjobs so good? Well, your partner can control how tight their mouth is around your cock, and how hard they suck on you. This can make it feel as if you are in a really tight hole which is a huge turn on.

Since the attention is all on you, you don’t have to worry about the little things. However, if your partner isn’t particularly skilled in it you might have to content with teeth and a very short blowjob if they can’t manage to take your meaty length all of the way in.

Thankfully, most people out there are actually quite skilled at blowjobs and, if they aren’t, you can always coach them and give them hints and tips. You might even be lucky enough to find a sexy woman who loves giving head so much that you get to end every hot and sexy sex session this way.

Woman licking lips

Sex

Sometimes, you can’t beat a good fuck. There is nothing better than filling a woman’s sweet pussy with your cock and feeling her orgasm while you’re inside her is great. It is good for both of you, allowing you to get to orgasm together, and the positions make it a lot of fun.

However, sometimes the positions you most want to try can be awkward and difficult to get into, and even if you manage it can be difficult to maintain those positions.

There is also the trouble that, even if you are really enjoying fucking your girl, a lot of women struggle to come just from your dick in their pussy. Sometimes you still have to give her a helping hand to get her off, and that can be very distracting from the pleasure you are currently receiving. It can also be very frustrating for you, as instead of simply enjoying what is happening you’ll be concentrating on your partner.

That said, sex is a hell of a lot of fun. If you manage to find that sweet spot where your partner is getting closer and closer to orgasm you can keep going back to that position to finish off.

Anal

Anal is appealing to people because it is a taboo. It is a sexy taboo because they say you shouldn’t do it. It is seen as dirty and wrong, and that is why people find it oh so right to do.

Sexy naked legs

However, it can be extremely painful if you get it wrong, and there is a lot of preparation needed. You need to slowly work your way up from finger to dick to make sure you don’t hurt your partner when you try it, and you need a lot of lube to make things easier.

That said, having anal sex is very tight. A lot of men find it difficult to not blow their load immediately, as the tight and warm feeling of their cock inside their girl is great. It can be even better if you have a partner who enjoys it as much as you do, and you are sure to find some fun positions to try.

Which wins? You decide. Let us know in the comments below if you prefer anal, sex, or blowjobs. You could even check out the Escort Wales forum to see what others things. Do they agree with you or have they got other ideas about which is better?

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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