4 Tips For Dealing With Premature Ejaculation

Contrary to popular belief, premature ejaculation is a common problem. It can happen to the best of us and can put a real dampener on the evening. For many it makes them scared to jump into the sack for fear of their performance letting them, and their partner, down.

But it doesn’t have to be this way. There are many things you can do to delay your orgasm and keep your partner satisfied without needing to sort to drastic measures. Sit your partner down and read through this article together to help you get a healthier and happier sex life.

Man and woman in bed looking disappointed

1) Stop thinking of sex as a way to orgasm

For many, sex is only to achieve orgasm, which puts more pressure on the people involved. Start thinking about it as fun and that your orgasm isn’t as important as you believe – it can help you slow it down and provide your partner with a great time.

2) Use condoms

It might sound like stating the obvious, but condoms can reduce the amount of stimulation on your penis, delaying your orgasm. It means you can continue as you were but without it affecting you as much. You can go for longer while still satisfying your other half – a huge bonus!

3) Pressure can sometimes be good

While trying not to think of the problem can be useful, pressure can be your friend in this situation. Why not try applying pressure to delay your orgasm? When you cum, your scrotum rising up to be closer to your body. Your partner can hold your balls away from your body, which can help to delay orgasm. If that doesn’t work, try wrapping a hand around the base of your penis and press light, as this can have the same effect.

Woman experiencing pleasure

4) Take a break

This may not be what you want to do, but taking a break can be just what you need. When you find you are getting close, stop for between ten and thirty seconds. The time should be long enough to give you a break, while still being short enough to keep you hard.

It should help to not only prolong sex and your orgasm, but it will help you learn where your “point of no return” is.

If you’d prefer, take those few seconds to focus on pleasing your partner. The teasing will get them closer, too.

Hopefully these tips should help you go a little further in the bedroom, but if you want more why not talk to a Cardiff escort? They will have some more ideas on how to keep calm under pressure.

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Martin Ward is a well respected editor and writer with over five years experience in the adult industry. After stints in the Escort Advertising call centre and on the escort forum, he moved into the site editor position around three years ago.

Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.

When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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